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What’s Keeping You Emotionally Stuck After Your Breakup?

Discover your dominant attachment pattern... and how it’s affecting your ability to move on.

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Question 1 of 8

SECTION 1: When you're dating someone new…

1 - I tend to:

A

A - Worry they'll lose interest if I’m too much.

B

B - Feel smothered when they get too close.

C

C - Show up as myself without overthinking.

Question 2 of 8

SECTION 1: When you're dating someone new…

2 - If they don’t text back quickly, I:

A

A - Feel anxious and check my phone constantly.

B

B - Feel relief... I value space.

C

C - Stay calm... they'll reply when they can.

Question 3 of 8

SECTION 1: When you're dating someone new…

3 - I often:

A

A - Doubt if I’m enough.

B

B - Feel better alone than trying to make it work.

C

C - Feel secure even when things are uncertain.

Question 4 of 8

SECTION 2: After a breakup…

4 - I usually:

A

A - Obsess about what went wrong.

B

B - Shut down and pretend I’m fine.

C

C - Feel pain, but trust I’ll process and move forward.

Question 5 of 8

SECTION 2: After a breakup…

5 - I:

A

A - Stalk their profile or reread old texts.

B

B - Cut them off emotionally and move on fast.

C

C - Let go in stages without losing myself.

Question 6 of 8

SECTION 2: After a breakup…

6 - I secretly:

A

A - Hope they’ll reach out again.

B

B - Feel better never seeing them again.

C

C - Accept it’s over, and wish them well.

Question 7 of 8

SECTION 3: Growing up and love…

7 - As a child, I felt:

A

A - Unsure if love was stable or earned.

B

B - Safer keeping my emotions to myself.

C

C - Supported, even when I struggled.

Question 8 of 8

SECTION 3: Growing up and love…

8 - I was told:

A

A - I was “too emotional” or “clingy”.

B

B - To toughen up or stop needing so much.

C

C - That my feelings were valid.

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